We agreed to view gf having a threesome with two males — however it ended up being intolerable

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DEAR DEIDRE: we decided to view my gf sex that is having other males however it has ruined our relationship.

We had been chatting after having sex one night and she described her sexual fantasy.

She stated if we decided to do hers, she would allow me to do mine too. She stated she had constantly desired to have sexual intercourse with two other guys while her partner viewed. I happened to be gobsmacked.

I did son’t would you like to rock the watercraft thus I stupidly said yes. I will be 29, this woman is 28 so we have now been together for 36 months.

We now have always possessed a sex that is good and I also thought it absolutely was satisfying sufficient for all of us both.

We did agree guidelines, however, such as for instance utilizing condoms with no kissing or cuddling these males a while later. I desired to be clear it absolutely was solely a intimate thing with no emotions included.

She work it and as opposed to have strangers, she brought in 2 friends that are male. They broke all the rules she had promised while I was watching. She kissed and fondled them both in addition they declined to utilize condoms.

After five full minutes i could stand any more n’t and sought out of this space. She was heard by me state she would definitely speak to me personally.

We left the flat before the following day. My gf had been furious.

She stated I’d ruined the night but did acknowledge the guys managed her like a bit of meat.

It creates me feel ill each time i do believe about this and I also have now been resting regarding the settee since.

She’s got now said she stopped using the Pill in the right time, whilst the potential for having a baby by certainly one of them managed to make it more exciting. We don’t determine if she had been lying or perhaps not.

I can’t communicate with my children I have talked to one trusted female friend about it but.

She said i will keep my gf and called her a tramp. My gf claims that this buddy is attempting to split us up with me herself because she wants to be.

She claims her, I’ll never get anyone as good as her if I leave.

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DEIDRE SAYS: starting that threesome ended up beingn’t plenty behaviour that is cheap self-destructive.

Your gf must obtain an urgent sexual-health and maternity check.

We wonder exactly exactly what lies behind this dream of hers.

Did your gf not realise she’d wind up feeling found in this sort of situation?

Ask exactly just what has led her to feel interested in such high-risk behaviour that is sexual.

There must be some foundation you move forward together for it and understanding that might help.

My e-leaflet on intimate dreams may help you talk this over.

But knowing deep down you may never have the exact same about her once again, breaking up will be perfect for you both.

If that’s the case, make time to get throughout the split prior to getting involved in other people, whether that is your friend that is good or. You ought to provide your hurt to be able to heal.

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